SYMBOLIC / UNITY CEREMONIES

With it`s roots in ancient Celtic tradition, handfasting / hand tying is becoming an increasingly popular addition to modern celebrant ceremonies. Traditionally a promise was made between the couple to last a year and a day. At the end of that time they could decide whether to make the marriage permanent or go their separate ways!

It is where we get the phrase `tying the knot` and you may have seen it in Game of Thrones.

The couple join hands and face each other. The cords or ribbons are tied loosely around their clasped hands as the celebrant speaks or vows are exchanged. There are many knots that can be used but the ends of the cords are then pulled by the couple and the knot is tied as your guests all cheer! 

Different colours hold different meanings eg red for passion, green for new life etc. Or you can choose to include colours that match your theme. 

You can be as creative as you wish with the cords and it is a great way to involve friends & family, especially  children. 

It is a beautiful and often an emotional way to end your ceremony and the ties are a beautiful keepsake of your special day. I love it!

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The origins of Jumping the broom can be found in many different cultures around the world. It symbolises the brushing away of the past and the sweeping in of new beginnings, a leap of faith into a new life. It usually takes place at the end of the ceremony.

One of the attendants passes the broom to the couple who make a sweeping gesture before laying it on the ground. The celebrant invites everyone to count 3 2 1 JUMP! The happy couple then hold hands and jump over the broom then continue down the aisle to great applause. It`s great fun!

The broom is usually decorated by the couple with flowers & ribbons. This would work so well with a Harry Potter or Halloween themed wedding! 

This is a beautiful but simple ritual that symbolises the joining, not just of two people, but two families and two futures. 

At the start of the ceremony, a member of each family, often the mothers, light the two smaller candles. Following the exchange of rings and vows the couple each take one of the candles & together light the larger one. Independent as individuals but stronger and brighter together. 

This ritual does not work well for outdoor cermeonies!

Other fab ideas to consider include a wine blending ceremony, time capsule, tree planting & wine box. These can all be adapted or you could create your very own.......the only limit is your imagination! Get in touch to find out more. 

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